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Went to get some last minute groceries, wasn't particularly concerned about passing, but wore a mask because I wanted to give my face a break for the weekend. I get out of my car and some corn fed yokel 14 year olds run past me while loudly have a conversation about 'what is it?!'. They go back and forth on if I'm a girl or boy, I can't remember the exact details of the conversation because the girl in the group answered the two boys with something that shut my brain down. She said "that's a Democrat"...

what-the-hell

I'm still having trouble processing the whole thing.

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[–] Eldritch@hexbear.net 14 points 17 hours ago

In authoritarian communist china and ussr, the youth were brainwashed with hateful stereotypes

[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 11 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

misgendered AND called a lib. I'd be devastated

[–] M68040@hexbear.net 15 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

This is why we need slurs for cis people that hit like the slurs they cook up

[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 11 points 19 hours ago

How about chicken fucker?

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 65 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i think id prefer being called slurs over being called a democrat tbh trans-sad

teenagers being overtly transphobic

niko-yawn

being called a democrat

omori-furious

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 43 points 1 day ago

being called slurs

being called a democrat

same-picture

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 22 points 1 day ago

Just remember that in their minds democrats are cool baby-eating communists that run the world and have crazy sex parties with lots of drugs you haven't even heard of

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

She said "that's a Democrat"...

I think you found the target audience for "The New Norm."

[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 13 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] knightly@hexbear.net 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Yo, what the fuck? The content mines are overflowing!! We have Goth cartoon Elon now, he just had to be a part of it.

[–] knightly@hexbear.net 2 points 4 hours ago

Right-wingers with too much money trying to fill out a library of anti-woke content for their failing streaming services. XD

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 49 points 1 day ago

I would take "Democrat" to be more offensive than some of the worst spiels that the most heated gamer can deliver to me.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 43 points 1 day ago

"that's a D#mocrat"...

That's fucked up. I'm sorry it happened to you. meow-hug

[–] context@hexbear.net 72 points 1 day ago (3 children)

She said "that's a Democrat"...

meow-knife-trans thems fightin words

[–] Des@hexbear.net 52 points 1 day ago (1 children)

yeah going to start referring to that as the d slur

[–] TomBombadil@hexbear.net 32 points 1 day ago

Kamala Harris, of the [removed] party...

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 40 points 1 day ago

I know right? You can call me anything but for some reason being called a liberal or a democrat is the worst.

Like don't associate me with those Hamilton loving freaks! meow-cactus

kitsupogi I do not tempt such fates.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 58 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You can tell they're just parroting things their shitty parents/shitty Youtubers the algorithm pushes have said.

It's a sad state of affairs the way our children are brainwashed.

I'm sorry you got called a Democrat OP

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 49 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I was waiting in line at the grocery store today, this dude in front while trying to be polite was like "oh you can help them first". Then like seconds later switches to using him for good measure.

I was just sort of bemused because I could see the guys thought process being like "oh no I used neutral pronouns they're going to think I'm gay", quick start misgendering!

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago

Comrade grocery store line guy, welcome to the Home of Sexuals. We have blanket forts and (optional, consentual) snuggles. It fuckin rules.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was just sort of bemused because I could see the guys thought process being like “oh no I used neutral pronouns they’re going to think I’m gay”, quick start misgendering!

Definitely something I've noticed. A lot of homophobia being used by highschoolers, followed by "just messing around, I don't really have a problem with people being gay", followed by either insisting they aren't gay or jokes by others about them being gay. Was a bit surprised transphobia seemed less common than homophobia in those groups. Like, I don't remember hearing any overt homophobia when I was in grade-school (just "no homo" type comments). But maybe people just kept quiet with those jokes around me?

[–] blight@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I don’t know when you went to grade school, but trans (and hence transphobia) wasn’t invented until 2022 by Kamal sHarrias (PBUH)