this post was submitted on 09 Jun 2023
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Right now the user count Lemmys is comparatively tiny when held up against reddit - but the user count isn't the thing that makes a social media site, it's the engagement

So even if you're used to lurking, try to get a little more active! Post memes, vote on posts, talk in the comments, whatever!

If people come here and see activity, content, and discussions, they're more likely to stay and contribute their own - if they come and see a ghost town, they'll just go back to reddit

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[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I try but I rarely post. I did seem to kinda revive the !beeandpuppycat@lemm.ee community so that's dope. I hope people keep posting there.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 2 points 7 hours ago (2 children)
[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Blaze@feddit.org 1 points 5 hours ago

Interesting, I see you did on the lemmy.ca and not LW. I'm not the biggest LW fan myself, but that community has a much wider range than the lemmy.ca one

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 6 hours ago

Already did hehehe

[–] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] a1studmuffin@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cool, I didn't know we could embed images in posts and they'd show up inline. I wonder how long that will last, haha.

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[–] Skullfurious@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I'll post my puppy everyone likes puppies.

[–] mattc@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I don't often have anything to add, but here is my buddy.

[–] its4am@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Senseibull@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago
[–] SQL_InjectMe@partizle.com 1 points 1 year ago

that's not a puppy, he's too big

[–] Unlikelyvillain@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 months ago

Here’s my kitty cat Kira

[–] carrot@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] CrayonMaster@midwest.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Watch me engage with someone

[–] CruiseTheBlues@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Watch me watch you engage with someone

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[–] deviant@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

This is your friendly neighborhood deviant trying not to lurk

[–] Scavenger_Solardaddy@lemmy.fmhy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Big time introverted lurker on reddit, since here is a much smaller community, I don't feel so intimidated. I'll try to be more active here. Let's do this guys, let's create a great place for all the Reddit Refugees. FUCK u/Spez!

[–] bitsplease@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

FUCK u/Spez!

Hey now, /u/spez is a hero - without him, Lemmy would never have taken off like it has lol

[–] 3ntranced@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Don't tell me what to do, I'll engage when I'm ready >:(

hol up

[–] foofiepie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Hey people of the internet. So if I’m going to not lurk, and if I have a really weird sense of humour and am downright unfunny to most of my friends, where is my community here?

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[–] nathanpc@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I won't lie, if you look at my Reddit profile you'll see that I've commented more here in the last couple of days than probably the last 3 years on Reddit. The community just feels more welcome and I feel as if my comment will get read instead of being drowned out as it happens on Reddit.

[–] Debs@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Same. Always kinda talked myself out of commenting on reddit because my comments would never be engaged with. Felt like I missed the boat there. Time to start over and build a new community.

[–] its4am@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

My comment would either get overlooked or it was literally walking on eggshells. Make an innocuous remark that somehow gets taken out of context and say hello to the downvotes.

[–] Manticore@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Either it doesn't get engaged with, or the people who engage with it have the reading comprehension of a carrot.

I noticed you didn't explicitly say in your post that you don't kick puppies, so let me assume that you believe that is acceptable and then vividly describe what a horrible person you are. Also,

Time to start over

...now that I've pulled a tiny portion of comment out of context to make it easier to attack, how dare you.

[–] alpaca128@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, communities where people discuss in good faith are so much more pleasant.

[–] longshaden@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

hol' up, comparing their reading comprehension to that of a carrot is an unfair insult to the average carrot.

and how exactly is the comparison? is it one carrot per person, or can a single carrot out-comprehend the whole lot?

[–] HarvesterOfEyes@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yep, felt the same way on reddit. Sometimes, I started writing a comment but then halfway through I thought to myself "can I really muster the energy to engage with people who just skim through it or aggressively pick it apart and write an essay on how right they are with sources either taken out of their ass or taken out of context just to suit their viewpoints?". So I just ended up deleting it and go back to lurking.

[–] tyler@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Usually with Reddit you gotta be there early in a post to get interacted with. If it’s 5-6 hours since the post was made you’re only likely to get a few scattered upvotes.

[–] mobiuscoffee@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

It felt a bit off at first to not have the top comments all be the ones with the most votes, but I like how it works on lemmy after spending time here.

You can join an old thread and not feel like it's pointless to add to the discussion!

[–] Dougie@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Yep, this is how i felt as well!

[–] Alexxxolotl@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Alright... this marks the end of my lurking lifestyle then, I guess ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[–] Cyclonus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Was lurking on Reddit for 10 years, made just 9 comments that whole time; when there's so much noise you don't feel you have much to add to the conversation. But us lurkers have a chance to be heard in a growing community and help shape it in some way, gotta get out of my comfort zone I guess.

[–] DawnOfRiku@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Honestly, I feel more comfortable participating on Lemmy than I ever did on Reddit or Twitter.

[–] Mixo@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

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## just doing my part##

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[–] flamingseaturtle@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

After 14 years on reddit I’m tired of watching it die, the death of Apollo is what pushed me over the edge, I loved Apollo. I’ve been browsing in here for the past few days. I like it. Trying to get used to it. Fuck reddit and u/spez all of the situation was trash. Thank you all for recommending this site!! I’m excited to be apart of it!

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[–] jatt@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Made an account 22 hours ago, been lurking around here and there, finally decided to post my first comment after reading this post. I'd like to get more involved, just trying to find my footing first. Speaking of - what app(s) is everyone using? I'm on Android, and just logged into Jerboa. Decent UI, not a fan of the flashing screen during transitions. Any recommendations on other apps? Thanks.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)
[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Definitely. Everyone on Lemmy at this time seems very reasonable as well and I am finding that the discussion is typically of a much higher quality than on Reddit, so for those who don't usually engage, try it, it's definitely worth a shot here.

[–] Toldry@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago
[–] problem_chimp@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Using the jeroboa app rn and it's fairly intuitive.

You're right, I'll try. I enjoy reading, but often get overwhelmed with trying to respond, so I end up just giving up and not finishing my

[–] JMHershey125@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do we get any benefit from hosting our own Lemmy server? I am a tech nerd and love new IT projects. Sorry if this is off topic, please redirect me someplace else if there is a better thread to ask my question in.

[–] bitsplease@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

The main benefit is being in total control of your experience on lemmy

If you're on someone else's server, you don't really have any control of federation, and your instance admins could just decide to defederate some instance that you enjoy seeing content from without your say. Similarly you may want to defederate from an instance, but on a public server you'd have to appeal to the admins to do so for the entire server.

Other than that it's mainly a "because it's cool" thing

[–] viptela_never_works@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

test post please don't ignore

[–] velvetThunder@lemmy.zip 1 points 11 months ago

Shush! let me lurk....oh no

[–] Lucy@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Ok here's a meme that is unrelated to anything we're discussing but always cracks me up:

[–] cfx_4188@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

Lemmy sprawls thanks to his dislike of Reddit's new rules. This is both a virtue and a problem at the same time. Reading 1,000 "Reddit is about to fall apart" posts or copies of old Reddit posts is quite tedious. Oh yeah, there's also the defederation announcements, it's even more tedious to read that nonsense. Guys, you have not had time to consolidate, and already arranging a rant.

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