Gamaxray

joined 1 year ago
[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

This is also the title of an awesome movie that I am not sure kids would really get.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago
[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago (3 children)

What's lostwave?

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago (5 children)

That's when I realized Rick and Morty had gone to shit! It's unfortunate, the first couple seasons were pretty good.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I have this: Hey Kay! So, I have a few questions that have been in my head for a bit. I have decided to ask you. When we last chilled, why was Jon so upset? Your demeanor changed as well when they got home. And the next time we were going to chill and you had to "process" something. Was that about us? Is Jon jealous? When y'all decided to become an ENM relationship, what was your true intention? I ask these questions because if I am the cause of any issues, we need to discuss them and figure out what's going to happen. I care for you. I want you to be happy, content, and safe. I don't want you to do anything you do not want to. And I want you to be free to do what you want.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was going to send a very specific and throughout message. I have it typed out and almost ready to send. But your suggestion may be better. We have been texting eachother Good morning and good night texts for months now. maybe I should drop it in one of them.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I cannot answer those questions. I can speculate. I feel they are new to ENM relationships and may have entered into it as a way to find new partners. Not much prep work or ground rules. Idk. It is kinda looking like Jon is that kind of person. I am so thankful for your advice! I will have to prepare a message to Kay. Any advice on how to communicate my concerns?

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I have honestly thought about offering him the opportunity to join us.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

That's what I want to avoid. I ended up walking into a shit show.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah. Probably.

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I fixed it for you!

[–] Gamaxray@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, they're in an open, committed relationship. That's basically what ENM is. But there's supposed to be communication.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Gamaxray@lemmy.world to c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world
 

Hello, I(31M) guess I will begin from the start of this relationship. I became friends with Kay(24F) who is a is an ENM relationship with Jon(24M). Kay and I really hit it off and began being intimate. Fast forward to a couple weeks ago. While Kay and I were chilling Jon came home and was so upset he could barely contain himself. Kay's demeanor changed as well. I just ignored it. The next time I was going to chill with Kay, she couldn't because Jon needed to "apparently process something". A week later I met up with Kay and she said she was overwhelmed and couldn't hang out as often. I just took it at face value. I haven't seen her since. She continues to text me, and insists she wants to see me. I am definitely confused, but should I be worried?

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