Alunyanners

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[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

yeah... consequences of frequently being called an "attention seeker" back when i was a minor for the crimes of opening up to others. as a result now i live with worrying if i'm bothering others by opening up or expressing my psychological needs.

wish others understood it like you do because come on, we're not fucking robotic tin cans. we're people with emotions. fuck this toxic individualistic nonsense where you get told that "It's nOT otHEr PeOPleS' job" to validate or comfort you ๐Ÿ˜’

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

thanks ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

dunno why something as simple as this is so difficult for some people to just say

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 2 days ago (3 children)

for context i experienced transphobia in an online space somewhere and it really would've helped.

sorry for being a fucking attention seeker.

 

don't fucking lecture me by saying that i "don't need others to validate me since i'm already a woman" or that "i don't ACTUALLY need others to validate/affirm me, i can do it myself".

like yes i can do that but it fucking hits different when someone else says that. especially if it's someone close to you.

but apparently it's too hard for some people to tell a trans woman in need that they'll "always be a woman". even if you explicitly fucking request that. even if that someone is your partner who also happens to be a trans woman.

apparently according to her i don't need anyone else "to tell me that" because "i'm already a woman"

i hate this constant dismissal of what i need. just tell me what i want and i'll get out of your fucking way.

makes me wonder what's the point of having friends/partners even is when you can't even depend on rely on others and ALWAYS GOTTA FUCKING DO EVERYTHING YOURSELF to get what you want

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

jesus. if hexbear is considered a small site, i don't want to think what lemmygrad would be considered. /nm

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Yeah, they're Brazilian. Matter of fact, they said they actually use translators to talk with me and non-portuguese speakers.

So I think these would be very helpful sources for them to look into. Thank you. ^^

Boccher the Yandere ๐Ÿ˜ณ

 

they have been (for whatever reason) studying about wars currently going on in the middle east since apparently brazil doesn't document on this enough, as well as reading up on zionism. they've been seeing "a LoT oF eXtReMiSm FrOm BoTh SiDeS" and assured me that they weren't trying to "question in defense of zionism because they don't know everything about the subject and that they are just a student seeking further information about it"

i was already thinking of:

  • showing them pictures of disgusting zionist settler colonialists sitting on roofs watching IOF genocide and bomb on palestinians live
  • showing them pictures of the barbarianism committed by the IOF (stuff like them descerating a lifeless palestinian's body? wearing a bra on their genocidal missions? idk, pics of them had surfaced on lemmygrad some months back)
  • that one video where a zionist settler-colonialist goes "if i don't steal it, someone else will" to a native palestinian
  • a news article where despite having the deeds to the house, zionist settler colonialists just up and start living on the palestinian's house and kick them out
  • mention how the IOF murdered palestinian babies and pulled an US by expanding more than they were permitted to
  • mention that it's pretty disgusting/insensitive to paint this as a case of "extremism from both sides" when it's clearly about a group of oppressed people being genocided on their own lands finally fighting back against the show of power they've been doing for the past decades. (i wonder if they'd ask "further proof" of this)
  • show proof about the zionist project's existence being only a recent thing over palestine's, which had existed for a long time (though i wonder if they'd try to pull the bible verse about "israelis" and shit)

is there anything else i'm missing here? or am i good to go?

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 week ago (4 children)

hold on, what's this about there being a Bi Freddy Scene? ^^;

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

i'm now curious about what these wild takes they have about non-white trans women like me.

but i pray that i don't have to meet the kind of trans women you mentioned... and that they can eventually see the light and the error of their ways.

unbelievable that some people - despite being oppressed by the system - could be like this.

coincidentally, do these people also happen to be truscum/transmed? or even some "tucutes" are a part of this? because i feel like it'd make sense for truscum/transmed trans people to hold such reactionary views.

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)

sadly yes, but i just didn't expect feminists of all people to harbor these kinds of sentiments

[โ€“] Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

hold on. there are... 3rd wave feminists... with no sense of intersectionality??? the hell???

 

/genq. I don't live in the west, but I am curious about this.

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by Alunyanners@lemmygrad.ml to c/memes@hexbear.net
 

boyoriginally posted on c/traa (since i figured that boy~~kisser~~ was a queer icon by now), but i was wondering if it'd fit the comm; so posting it here instead. i had to see this, now you do as well <3

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmygrad.ml/post/5694077

people are already making jokes about america in the comments section lmao

...of course, some also felt the need to drag the pride flag in it as well :/

like America ever cared about queer people

oh right, I forgot, people kissing people of the same gender and people wanting to change their gender is western American imperialism to these people! ...somehow


idk, I thought it was weird and funny lol

 
 

These are questions that keep me up at night.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmygrad.ml/post/5465513

i know COD WAW is one of them where it has the best portrayal of the soviets, but the other COD games where you also get to play as the soviets/red army soldier like in the original COD (COD 2003) and in COD 2 - are they just as good? or at least, not as problematic as with the newer cod games?

because i refuse to play any game that's just pure crystallized american state propaganda and talks shit about the USSR. fuck off with that shit.

figured i'd post it here too since hexbear has more activity than the grad ~~but i'm still a grad patriot so crossposting it is instead lmao~~

but yeah, any thoughts?

 

i know COD WAW is one of them where it has the best portrayal of the soviets, but the other COD games where you also get to play as the soviets/red army soldier like in the original COD (COD 2003) and in COD 2 - are they just as good? or at least, not as problematic as with the newer cod games?

because i refuse to play any game that's just pure crystallized american state propaganda and talks shit about the USSR. fuck off with that shit.

 
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