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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] Phrax@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago

It reminds me of when I tried switching to Linux (from Windows). Functional but lacking a lot of mainstream software, especially games. Lemmy feels way easier to use like a normal website, but there is a feeling almost akin to homesickness.

[โ€“] huskola@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

From /. to Digg then Reddit. my journey continues....

[โ€“] animist@lemmy.one 6 points 1 year ago

I think because I have left reddit and returned to it so many times over the past 15 years I was looking for a reason to make it permanent. I'm more relieved than anything else. My religion also teaches me that who you are is a result of all of the actions you have taken in your life, and that we should not associate with those whose actions inflict harm on their own community (meaning spez)

[โ€“] IsTheSeaWet@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just deleted the Apollo app. Sad times. Hope this turns out to be a viable replacement

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[โ€“] dmtalon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Ive spent 98% of my time here in Lemmy vs. 2% since last night. I'm not deleting my reddit account just yet, but, overall like what I am seeing here. I'm also just trying to figure everything out here.

There are issues/worries about what happens when an instance goes away, where's that content go? Duplicate/fragmented communities on multiple instances.

I'm more worried about losing the CONTENT that we created on Reddit, etc as a historic/research tool if reddit fails completely. Lot of content with people helping others.

I see/saw a lot of talk about wiping your data before leaving... I'm sure if that happened in larg volumes, they have backups of that content. No idea what legal ramifications there are with restoring them though.

I'm in a wait and see, but w/o RIF I'm gonna be hard pressed to use reddit on my phone, and if old. Goes away that might end it for me.

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[โ€“] Jefe@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

Not really. Fuck em. Been on Reddit for 8 years and I've been disillusioned for a while. I just hope this place grows and I figure out how it works well enough to not feel the need to go back.

[โ€“] Olkyle@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No I don't. I've been in denial for too long that Reddit was great. But it has devolved alot. The formative moments of Lemmy feel like old reddit and I'm enjoying it so much more. Will that change? Probably, but I'm savouring the wholesome and fun community that is Lemmy right now.

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[โ€“] ShawnKnight@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I'm dissapointed, i loved reddit but seeing them go and make the changes i didn't like. It was heartbreaking for me, i loved Reddit but The Reddit of the Past is not the Reddit of today

[โ€“] maporita@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I closed my Facebook account in 2016 and haven't looked back. Hoping I feel the same about Reddit

[โ€“] burgersc12@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I didn't care about giving up fb. But giving up reddit is much harder. Lemmy's filling the void tho

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[โ€“] kinther@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Absolutely. Most of my 20s and 30s I've been on reddit. It was game changing for the early web. I decided today that I'm going to delete all my previous comments, posts, and accounts. It's time to move on.

[โ€“] pre@fedia.io 6 points 1 year ago

@Acetamide Reddit has been pretty terrible for years, I'm excited rather than sad to see their demise.

[โ€“] Mane25@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Kind of cautiously optimistic at this stage, Reddit has been going steeply downhill for the last few years - if the "blackout" does nothing for Reddit then maybe it could succeed in drawing attention to alternatives.

[โ€“] kenoh@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sure, but here's the thing. If we all just moved to another centralized system, we'd just be setting the timer for the next heartbreak. It's a matter of when, not if.

Lemmy's growth will be slow. It may even stagnate. But, unlike Orkut, Friendster, Google+, etc. it can't be taken away from us. lemmy.ml might even shut down, but the Fediverse will always be here in one form or another.

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[โ€“] unfuckwit4873@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

Not at all, I wanted to leave reddit since Tencent bought their shares. Lemmy seems almost ready now. Good enough not to look back.

Nah. I never liked using centralized monoliths like Reddit and other social media sites but stayed there due to lack of alternatives. I'm glad to see a federated network like Lemmy getting enough activity that I can ditch Reddit.

[โ€“] CalcProgrammer1@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes but also no. I missed Digg when I left it for Reddit and I loved the earlier days of Reddit. Reddit was a lot of my college years from 2010-2012. Reddit felt like a very nice community back then, but it's been going steadily downhill for years and I'm not surprised it's come to this at all. Lemmy feels like a breath of fresh air, especially given that we're migrating off of corporate controlled media this time rather than just jumping ship to another proprietary platform with a limited lifespan. It hits different this time, in a good way. I'll miss the good times on Reddit and the communities there, but to be honest those communities were best in Reddit's heyday. I'll probably miss the vast amount of information that Reddit built up over the years most, that's over a decade of Internet history killed off by greed. I'm hoping moving to decentralized platforms will stop the cycle of corporate greed putting an expiration date on our Internet homes.

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[โ€“] t0fr@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

Of course I feel heartbroken. Nich communities that I am slowly leaving behind. Many many saved posts that I always intended on going back to but never did. I'm still on Reddit and the reality of the situation hasn't sunk in yet. But I'm starting over here fresh and I'm even ready to actually participate more over here than on Reddit. I'm just ready to start something new

[โ€“] _ice_witch_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I had been getting sick of the direction reddit has headed for the past couple years and have been looking for alternatives. I discovered lemmy at basically the perfect time. So I guess I'm not too heartbroken mostly because I've been frustrated with the platform for quite a while.

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[โ€“] Violet@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

In a way I'm a little sad but I'm also hopeful. I started on Reddit 13 years ago and it was a very different place than it is now. I liked it better then, and I think I'm sad and will miss it for what it was, not what it is. I'm hopeful for a fresh start here on Lemmy where it feels like I'm getting back to the actual conversation with other users, which is what I miss about the current Reddit. There's very little conversation there anymore, so much of it is just pictures and jokes and bots.

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[โ€“] gnuslashdhruv@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I'm really hoping some of my smaller communities focused on specific novels or games make the leap over.

[โ€“] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Reddit has gone downhill for a couple of years. I am glad it will die.

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[โ€“] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Nah, they were just a company after all. The strongest feeling I get is that it's just a bummer because I've grown to depend on the platform so much and now I've got to try and adapt.

At the same time, as this thing that was previously an interesting little curiosity on a corner of the web grew to be a big time suck and addiction, the dopamine hit returns and actually helpful interactions I was getting from Reddit were diminishing anyway so when there was finally a convenient push to make me try harder to either find an alternative or just ditch it, I was strangely grateful.

I do feel like I'm losing something that was very useful resource and which also filled a need, albeit one that it created in the first place, but at the end of the day, it's just a forum. I can't really feel betrayed or heartbroken by an entity that was only ever intended to make money and had no obligation to my approval.

[โ€“] DeepChill@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

No. Full stop. Fuck spez. I miss Apollo though.

[โ€“] ellie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago

I was always aware this could happen, but never expected it would happen. Reddit has been a part of my life for years. I never felt good about the company, but thanks to the communities on there, I found so many amazing things and learned so much. As absurd as it sounds, I had completely life changing moments begin on Reddit. So yeah, I'm sad about what happened, but I'm optimistic that we can build something better.

[โ€“] privacyn@feddit.it 5 points 1 year ago

Fuck technofascists

[โ€“] Betazed@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago

I'm not breaking up yet but I'm definitely gonna cheat a little while Reddit goes through their drama!

[โ€“] Spitfire@pawb.social 5 points 1 year ago

A bit, yes. I'd been on Reddit for over a decade, and grew attached to the site and the many different communities that were there. I could find a subreddit for nearly anything.

But over time, one could see it begin to change. It started with "new" reddit, then NFTs, and it all felt like it started to move away from what it began as. It also became more toxic (though this may be more due to users than the site itself).

But now, we can plainly see that Reddit/Spez is all about profit and greed, nothing else. Gotta get that IPO for shareholders, right?

Though Lemmy is still small, I'm excited to see what it can become.

[โ€“] Arklese1zure@lemmy.one 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think what breaks my heart even more than the whole mess about 3rd party apps is that people are not going to care in a couple weeks, and just revert to reddit. Everyone just wants to go back to how things were.

There's gonna be a bunch of abandoned accounts here.

I hope I'm wrong.

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[โ€“] waspentalive@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (6 children)

It's like the Ikea lamp commercial. A person has a well-used lamp they have had for a long time. They go to Ikea and find a new lamp that is better and nicer. In the next scene, the old lamp is left on the curb. In the rain. alone. abandoned. The Ikea person comes on and asks "Do you feel bad for the old lamp?"

I only hope we eventually have some of the local communities that were subreddits of yore - like SacramentoBuyNothing - a place to share your old lam so it does not have to sit out in the rain at the curb.

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[โ€“] promodel@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like it's a break up with an abusive partner. I'm relieved but also sad.

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