jerryjigglemeyer

joined 1 year ago
[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

It's wild how quick some people on here automatically assume negative intent with questions like these.

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Not a bot account. Literally just posted the same question but reversed so both groups would have a place to answer.

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago

It's crazy to me how small women's pants pockets are. Like dayum y'all really can't hold shit in there

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Gotcha. So just for future reference, are we not allowed/supposed to ask questions like this in this community? Or is it moreso just looked down upon in here than other communities that are specifically suited for questions like it?

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Where is the place for that? Just want to hear some honest perspectives for educations sake.

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

watched the whole video. 10/10 would do again

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

My point exactly.

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'd hope that's the case, but I mean, look at artificial intelligence. People are widely adapting that even though theres proof that its going to replace tons of jobs in the near future.

But hey, "ooh shiny technology"

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

i'm pretty sure that was their point.

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's kind of what I meant. Didn't articulate it well enough. I see it as like a "hey, because my partner is doing this for me, I WANT to do this for them." Reciprocation of effort. Not necessarily just finances. I've been in situations where I felt like I was putting in more effort and it wasn't being reciprocated. So I was wondering if it was fair to expect equal reciprocation in a relationship where both people are able to contribute the same things

[–] jerryjigglemeyer@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

It's interesting how much you assumed of my intentions based on me asking an honest question.

I asked because I had a conversation about this with someone I was saw as a dating potential. We both went to the same school, took the same classes, and make around the same salary-wise. She asked why I haven't dated her yet and it was because she has expectations of a relationship that didn't align with mine.

 

Let's say both the guy and girl make the same amount of money and are both good at and enjoy cooking and cleaning.

Would it be wrong for a guy to want the girl to give equal contribution financially to the relationship if he's also willing and capable of contributing equally to domestic duties?

In this same scenario, would it be wrong for him to expect her to cook and clean if he's expected to handle the financial aspects of the relationship?

 

I was taking my daily mid-morning poop today and while I was wiping, I thought, I wonder how most people wipe.

I tend to wipe while standing up cause it's more comfortable and allows for more cheek-spreaditivity.

So, I beg the question: How does most of Lemmy wipe? Do you wipe while standing up or do you wipe while sitting down? Why?

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