Cammy

joined 2 months ago
[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 1 points 56 minutes ago
[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago

I'd rather be a child than support genocide in the name of pragmatism.

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I like to add a splash of vinegar too

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago

Kingdoms of Amalur had a cool version locked in the warrior path and I'm still mad about it.

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago

Transformers! Robots in disguise!

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

That's exciting. We joke about this place being cringe, but honestly it's one of the healthier communities online.

Does your spouse know your account or will you delete this post to hide the evidence?

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 59 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Grappling with that was a very interesting process for me. I felt conflicted and it felt like I was looking at alternatives to policing through guiding Harry's actions. The way the setting worked, I felt the discussion was pretty well explored.

But I get not wanting to engage even tangentially with cop slop.

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 11 points 6 days ago

Thanks for the heads up!

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 16 points 6 days ago

It was a debate! jokermala

[–] Cammy@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

I hope to God this is 100% AI free.

 

I have some friends and family in my life and it's really hard to broach topics like climate change, COVID, and Gaza and what my government's response means for our lives presently and in the future.

I talk about the unusual weather and it's too early in the morning to bring up climate change. Can't talk about surges in COVID infections after dinner because it would ruin the evening.

I'm trying to make plans and take preventative care for safety, but it feels like nobody around me wants to deal with the reality happening around me.

I think I'm holding out hope that these people in my life will take these things seriously if they'll just see reason, but deep down I know they don't want to engage with these things either because they're scared or in denial, or still insulated from the worst of it.

It's scary. It feels unsafe being around them, and not just for the material reasons like not taking the same precautions with COVID. It's like how can I trust them to see danger if they can't even reckon with the current things happening? How can I have a relationship with people who are this indifferent.

I get trying to cope and trying to find enjoyment where there is little to have, but it's incredibly lonely knowing that this site is like the only space I have to voice my concerns.

If you have made progress in getting people in your life to see reason, what worked? Does just sitting down and laying out these things as a personal concern help?

If you haven't been able to reach people who are this resistant to real conversation, how did you cope with it? What did you do about it?

I'm not in a level of community that I thought I was and I could use some advice on how to move forward.

 

I'm making a better effort to meditate, but I don't know if I'm doing it right. Focusing on my breathing and releasing thoughts is hard and if I relax too much, I fall asleep.

If you have related issues when meditating, have you found better ways to meditate or alternatives that give you similar results?

 

As someone who's broke and working through hard things, I feel bad not being able to help when there are other people going through it.

But we're all trying our best out here. Don't make it easy for libs and beat yourself up. Help others if you can and take care of yourself if you can't. Drink water.

 

It feels kinda wrong how quickly some people say they wouldn't kill hitler if they were sent back in time and given the opportunity.

I'm using that scenario because it seems like a common example, but I'm curious about how materialist theory would approach this.

Barring the sci-fi theories around time travel and whether a new timeline is created, where I believe it's fair game to change the past (since it's a new timeline) would it be morally right to improve the world if flung into a version of the past?

My thought is that it would be a moral obligation to help with things and not just be a witness to atrocity.

Edit: I think my question was more - Is it wrong to do nothing if flung into the past when you know what is likely to happen, or is it more wrong to try to prevent or change it?

I ask because it's almost a given in media and general discussion that you don't mess with things on the chance you make things worse by interfering. That argument feels flawed and lib- brained and I don't think I would be okay with a bad thing happening in front of me just because that's how it happened in my history book. Like the idea of standing by and doing nothing in the face of suffering feels wrong especially with something as nebulous as 'affecting the timeline'

 

I've made several alts over the years and it's wild to see how badly wreckers fumble on sounding like a leftist.

I used to think I needed to build more credibility before making a post, but it's not the case at all. If you're cool and stay consistent in your values, people here are so willing to give the benefit of the doubt.

Thanks for being a cool community who bans transphobes, debate lords, and chuds.

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